My Annual Mammogram..

I had 3D imaging mammogram and breast MRI all done in the month of August.  After seeing three calcification spots on my mammogram, I just wasn't comfortable with my mammogram report's impression: Benign.  I'm on heightened alert to these testings, since I have dense breast tissue, and my mammogram 6 years ago failed to detect my malignant tumor that was 2cm and was found by myself.  After discussing with my doctor of my concerns, we both agreed that I should follow up with a breast MRI since I haven't had one done in over 3 years, which I did and was waiting on results.  As I have been experiencing pain in my left breast in my previous surgical area and also to the breastbone, I  went to a free breast exam clinic given by a local breast surgeon at a local event... The doctor said everything felt normal and the pain is probably from the after-effects of radiation to the area.  Today, I went to see my doctor and learned my breast MRI tests came back normal which put my mind at ease. Ladies, be your own advocate for your body and make sure you're completely comfortable with report findings.

This is the new 3D imaging mammogram machine...

6 Years Ago...

6 years ago... Survivor of Triple Negative Breast Cancer. No celebration, only sadness I feel... for the ladies that are still battling this horrible disease. I have two friends that are battling again as they fight through Triple Negative Breast Cancer (TNBC) recurrences. Today, I lost a dear friend, Holly to this very disease that I prayed to God to spare her and make her well again. Friends, I can't perform miracles, I can only be a voice for TNBC, keep telling my story and bring attention to our disease and push for funding and better treatments. Today, no congratulations please, only prayers for Holly's family and to those that are still fighting the fight. Thank you very much and much love, Melissa

My Triple Negative Breast Cancer Sister, Vickie back to Ohio...

I am beyond thrilled to finally meet my very special Triple Negative Breast Cancer Sister, Vickie Roy-Sneedon a few weeks back on July 29, 2015.  Vickie was one of the first TNBC ladies that I first connected with online in the Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation Support Group over 5 years ago and have kept in contact since.  That was back in the day when I was newly diagnosed searching for other women who shared the same TNBC subtype of breast cancer that I did and only found very few as TNBC was a fairly new type of breast cancer that was discovered in 2005.  I quickly learned that Vickie and I had a lot in common, being TNBC; we both participated in a TNBC Foundation awareness video; we both loved cats and we both had a Tortoiseshell cat and a longhair black cat AND... though Vickie lives in Australia now for the last several years, we are both from OHIO!
I told Vickie back then that whenever she makes in back to the States to Ohio, to look me up and that we would meet up in person. Ok, this wait was long overdue, 5 years later I get a message from Vickie saying that she is coming home to Ohio during the summer.  I immediately responded that we must get together while she's in town and we need to make this happen! The time came and we decided to meet and drive halfway to Norwalk, Ohio from where I live and halfway from her hometown. Vickie picked the location of this nice coffee shop, Sheri's Coffee House where we hugged, sat and chat for awhile.  We noticed a pink ribbon painted in a wall mural inside the shop, and I inquired if the owner of the coffee house was a survivor... so awesome that she was a long-term breast cancer survivor too!  Vickie, Thank you so much for meeting me and strengthening our special sister bond, I love you!

Melissa Paskvan and Vickie Roy-Sneedon

The beautiful mural where the pink ribbon caught my eye...